I can't afford therapy, but found out Harbor House is free, and they have support groups Monday through Thursday. She believed they also have children's support groups, but I know my son would be against being in group, maybe even my daughter.

Getting my children into individual therapy will be one more thing they'll have to hide from their dad. After my SA, I saw the employee assistance counselor for a couple of times, and every time I came home he'd grill me on what we talked about, how she was trying to turn me against him and hate him. He made it difficult for me, and my job didn't like me taking time off work to see her, so I quit after 3 sessions. He also doesn't believe other people need to know about our problems, and doesn't like being told that maybe he should change his ways by people in a place of authority over him. Hence the retaliation using the computer when he was told that a filled prescription is proof enough for the courts that my daughter needs meds. He HATES ever being told his word is not final.