I am not able to give much advise of finding a significant other, yet I know from experience the 'depression' or the 'illness' lies to us and tells us we are not worthy, sound like you are a nice guy and just need to wait around until the right girl comes along.

No matter how hard it is it is so important to 'get out of the house' and just be honest and start looking for a female friend to start and maybe things will spark and go into a further committed relationship, never give up on hope. I hope your depression has eased and you are feeling better and be good to yourself, you do have a job I see, so that is a good thing to be proud of and it just takes time to wait for the right girl to come into your life.

I have a chronic problem of believing in the depression and illness that ppl or friends are just going to come crashing through the ceiling in an answer to my prayers, yet, that is not likely I know so I force myself to get out when possible even if just to the market and believe in yourself that the right place at the right time will come along and the rest will be history and stuff.

Best wishes and blessings- krzyk101