Wow! i'm so proud of you.....what a struggle you're going through and here you are reaching out for help....i'm really glad you came to the forums because there are tons of supportive people here who can help you.....my ex-husband told me, "it's all in your head"....so i'm very impressed that you're working so hard to care for your wife and baby.....BUT, you have to care for you...find another T if yours keeps focusing on your physical health....it's totally appropriate to "shop" for a therapist that "fits".......please continue posting here.......xoxo pat