I have never bad mouthed her, i don't have anything to bad mouth her about. If i did, i wouldn't do that anyway. Its not like this happened in a few days, it happened in a few weeks, it was a gradual thing. I also think there was a bit of 3rd party influence here, her ex bf(not the one she was fooling around with but a different one) gave her msn to his best friend(also a girl) who particularly doesn't like her. That night was the night she called me and told me she hated me. When she called me she was crying, and i think it is the type of hate you tell your parents when you're angry with them. Thanks for all the help. PS i talked to her today, but she kind of approached me. She stuck out her tounge at me, which she always used to do.... and she smiled.