i dont agree that love should never hurt. people are human and make mistakes. and i know that a lot of guys are commitment-phobic. so i think a lot of it was "holy crap.... i love her" and then freaking out afterwards. It hasnt happened since the last time and its been a few weeks. I do the same things, mine just manifest in different ways.

trust me, Ive done the "fixing" thing before and wont do that again. And he finally opened up and told me all the things that have been on his mind lately making him crabby. Hes applying for grad schools in a few months, taking the GRE and trying to keep his grades up while working. And I think he also might be having some money troubles because he hasnt wanted to go out in a couple weeks which is odd. So once he spilled all of that he has been a lot better. I guess he had this superman complex and didnt want to ask for any help getting through all of this. But weve actually been better than ever since his little blow up. Gave us a chance to confront some things and we both feel a little better.

Plus he is really sweet. You guys arent getting the full story cause when i wrote this i was upset. But like the other day I went in my bathroom and he had written "I love you" on my mirror in make up lol. And one time I got in my car and I have a little notebook in there and i turned the page and there was a note in there from him. One time I came over right after work all smelly and gross and he had candles set up and a bath drawn for me with my favorite wine out. He really is a sweetheart and I know he cares about me. Its not worth giving up on for a couple minor fights that have since been resolved.