Yes, I am finally realizing that I don't control any one's actions. And, I am not taking on any blame at this time.
I had a good T appt last night myself. Although I still don't even open totally up to my T about everything, I am trying.
I am learning a lot from being on this site.
Mostly, that we all are dealing with different areas of our depression.((((((everyone who has been supportive)))))