((((( Doesitend? )))))

I'm sorry to hear things are so rough for you. 12 years of marriage is a long time. With any marriage of course, it is about team work and working together and loving each other. It doesn't sound like there is much love there right now.

Sounds like you have done all you can, with the couples counselling, again it is something that you both need to want to do if you want to make it work.

I can't tell you what to do, but maybe it is time for you to think about your own needs now, and your 6 year old child's. What is really best for you and how you would go about making things right.