I just wanted to provide a quick follow-up on this thread. I tend to be a bit negative when writing about the school system and teachers...and a bit defensive.

I recently met with my son's teacher and a reading specialist at the school. Both were incredibly positive, seemed to have the best interest of my son front and center in all that they were doing, were not judgmental or looking to limit him in any way. The exchange was very positive and after the exchange, I left feeling like my son is well cared for at school. I am very glad that my paranoia was not reinforced this time.