Hi sephonjv...interesting userid BTW...how did you pick it?
Do you have a best buddy/friend other than your girlfriend?
How about spending some quality time with Simone away from parties,,,like a movie she would like to see or a nice dinner where you can talk freely about what is troubling you...
Share with her that you care for her and what it is about these "parties" that upset you. We all love it when those we Love are honest with us about our feelings...
I hope you find some outlet..
With care,
Lenny