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Originally Posted by lifelesstraveled
I don't want them to know that I am failure
It also stems from growing up in parents who didnt take much interest in me. No one ever cared about how my day was or how I was feeling. So I spent most of my time with my twin sister or by myself feeling completely unwanted. we were all living under the same roof. We are just disconnected.
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I don't buy the idea that you are a failure. Whose standards are you using? Do you think that it all started with your parents lack of attention and you are just continuing to replay that in your head? Your parents weren't paying attention because of their own problems. They didn't pay attention because something was wrong with you. I had this same problem growing up and I put the problem right where it belongs - with my dysfunctional parents...... Throw out that recording that keeps telling you that you have little value. Start acting like you are valuable because you are........
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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