I agree with talking with your therapist first about this...long and hard.

If you feel prepared for this, your therapist is on-board with it, and you have good support and tools in place, I'll share this...

My personal advice would be to NOT do this unless and until you are completely independent from your mother (emotionally, mentally, physically and financially). I'm saying that because these times are very difficult in the best of circumstances generally, to complicate it by things really rocking your world due to having to continue in certain roles is more than difficult.

That's all the advice I can give based on my personal experience, hon.

I'm glad you're doing as well as you are, and hope you continue! Keep posting!

KD