Oh, gosh, yes! That's such an important point and should be gone over and over and over again with T and supportive people who'll be there for your afterward if you continue on with this.
Please know that you might not get anything close to what you're hoping for from this on her part. If you do this, it needs to be for yourself, for your own healing...and NOT dependent on anything she may or may not do.
KD
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