(((salukigirl))) thanks for sharing your experience. Talking about it indeed does help, but maybe only for a few days. Anyways, I'm trying out theama's list, and keeping myself occupied whenever these thoughts surface.. Which seem to be a lot more often now that I saw him talking to that girl.

Arrrrgh. He is ok with me talking to my male friends, and I don't feel a thing for them, I don't want to be anything more but just friends with them. So I don't get why it's so difficult for me to accept that he has the same kind of relationship with his female friends.

(But telling myself that over and over again is somewhat helpful.)