Hey wisewomen. I got to tell you that you and your husband should not take it personal. I got one of those quote on quote great people in my family. She is so lovely and sweet. Takes time to listen to any one no matter how late and how frivolous. She has had MS for some odd years. She is now in the process of dying from Ms. She is a great person and she is getting a raw deal too. Just keep your head up and be thankful you know such a great person. I'm proud to have been part of her life even though It has been a small part. I'm thankful. Take this as a form of encouragement please.