(((((wisewoman & hubby)))))
I so know what your saying about crap happening...and know about being the kind and compassionate ppl you are.
I have a tumor in my sciatic nerve root and so far it's benign...and I can deal with the nerve damage.
Just crap happens, but I like who I am as I'm sure you do yourself and your hubby

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I'll have you both in my mind tomorrow and hoping for the best...i do believe in positive mind set...so hoping and sending lottsa positive thoughts your way.
Take good care
Eva