Bob don't feel so disappointed just yet you still have so many years ahead of yourself. I could see if you were going on 60...!!!

But hey your 21 plenty of time. Ever think of doing the e-harmony or
personal adds, maybe you could find someone there like yourself who's
like yourself.

But in my experience usually opposites attract but you never know. Sometimes too when you stop looking thats when you find someone
naturally, spontaneously....but in the mean time, I wouldn't worry
too much.....when the right one comes along you usually know it.

good luck!!!!!!