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Originally Posted by girlbassplayer
It sounds to me like his past, dealing with his mother as a child and you mentioned abuse, has made him dependent on attention, affirmation and affection, with perhaps a fear of abandonment. It makes me think more along the lines of a personality disorder than psychosis.
I definitely think therapy would be beneficial, whether it's solo therapy for him or marital counseling.
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Funny, he is a bassplayer and a drummer! Something has clicked a switch, and even our friends notice it. We are scheduled for conjoint therapy, AGAIN, and that therapist has asked him to get a solo therapist, but he has not moved on that. We all know how we can go into denial that NOTHING is wrong with us...I am in therapy weekly again, and I am finally going to conquer my demons! I am determined! He can heal himself or not. I have a daughter to raise and an obligation to her to raise her responsibly with or without him!
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