Hi Bob,

I read through your story and also through the replies, and I agree with what the other members have said. You're 21 years old, still very young. I'm sure that there will be plenty of opportunities for you in the future to find the right woman. But I do understand how you feel. I am 22 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend mainly because it just hasn't happened yet. I understand you may be eager to have a girlfriend and you may be questioning yourself as to why it hasn't happened yet, but everything happens in good time. What sucks is the waiting part. But I do agree with what was said earlier; sometimes relationships come about spontaneously, when you least expect it. So in the meantime keep on living your life and one of these days you may have that unexpected surprise you've been waiting for. I hope this helps and good luck to you!