\o/ wooh, I'm glad I could be of some help.
Salukigirl, I know what you're saying about that lying-thing. My bf admitted to lying about one, insignificant, thing - but ever since then I've been all "If he lied about something as trivial as that, what else is he lying about??" and that's when the espionage starts. I don't know if you've experienced catching yourself spying on your man, I hope it doesn't go that far for you. =/

But yeah, HONESTY is so important in a relationship if one is paranoid. To me, it doesn't matter if the truth will hurt - cos at least I'd know that he was honest, and the chance of me thinking that he's lying about something else is smaller. It's better to be hurt by the truth than to gain satisfaction from the lie.