Brian, Congrats and good luck and positive outlets from porn, and hoping you don't give up and kudos to the marriage and your spouse noticing a change, 12 days is very good, think of it as picking up the first drink for an alcoholic, I have had porn issues and have been tempted, yet remind myself of the destruction it leads too. wishing you and your battle of porn to be easier and better as the days go by, one day at a time. blessings kk101