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It is very hard to watch parents harm themselfs((thier health)) or even a relative as in my ((sister))
Keeping ones patiences can be very hard.Sorry you are having to deal with this
As with my parents they drank. My sister too plus drugs. My sister was blessed she made it. I decided when she needed it I helped her. I put her in rehab. Acually she was bakeracted. ((prolly spelled wrong))
Your right it does drag the whole family down.
I am not sure they at a certain point are aware of what they are doing? They still love....they themselfs at that point have lost sight of themselfs i think.
I am not sure if my parents were even aware of how much pain it caused me and my children......
With my sister she relaized after what she had lost.....How much with her neice and nephew, she could never get that back.
Not sure if this helps .....its the only way i know how to explain it with out useing my real life.
I know in my heart my parents loved me ....they just got lost in thier ill health.
But your right so hard to watch
muffy