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That is so hard, wanting to do something and change what is hurting someone you love, and being limited in what you can do. You are doing what you can do. The system can be so slow to wisen up and see that some parents are not fit to raise children, while at the same time they are investigating people who do the best they can but maybe struggle, and they just make them worse by threatening them and giving no assistance. I don't know why it's so hard for them to tell the difference, but I guess it is. You are being there for your kids and your granddaughter, and also sticking up for what is right with your son. You're giving the police the information that is needed to document what is going on in your granddaughter's life. You're there when someone needs to step in and provide responsible care for the baby. That is so important for her. Throughout her life, she will need someone who is consistent and loves her and she can trust.

I know it's hard, and you have to cope with it somehow. I think you did an excellent job dealing with your feelings too. You used a pen, and you posted here and let us know how you felt. You know where the feelings are coming from. Hang in there. You are a wonderful person, and you'll make it.

Rap