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Sounds like you have a few options. 1) keep putting it off, 2) have him do the calling and accept his choice, 3) you make the calls and interview the counselors qualifications.
Please consider; if you get a counselor who after four visits just doesn't seem to fit you move on and try someone else. If you get one that isn't right you have the power and option to move on! Finding a therapist that fits can take a few tries, we all know that.
No one can abuse you now unless you allow them and I know you won't allow it. You are not that scared little girl. You are an intelligent woman who wants to save her marriage and it will take God and a good counselor. All of us here are on your side, you are not alone my friend!
I know you don't want to live anymore being ruled by your feelings.
love you, Judy
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However confused the scene of our life appears, however torn we may be who now do face that scene, it can be faced, and we can go on to be whole.
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