Finally had consult with my ENT, turns out instead of an ear tube, he is going to do a different procedure, but basically helps the way tubing does, he'll make a teeny incision in the eardrum, vaccum the fluid and it is suppose to heal itself soon after.
May help the sinus blockage I'm feeling, but he found a cyst in the left sinus (I think the upper one,the size of a grape up there, on the CAT scan,he said there are times they heal themselves, if not there goes another procedure

But I rather get that done after the ear thingy, and for once have clear breathing again. . . I'm not giving up

Thanks for your replies

Sincerely,
DE