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thank you for your thoughts on this. iamtwilight, i don't have someone who can help me this way as all my family work during the hours i can call a counselor. katheryn, that is a good idea and i will see what i can find on the internet, it may help me see some good prospects. thanks!
judy those are some true thoughts you wrote except you seem to have a higher regard for my protective abilities than i do just now. but you are right and i am going to have to make some moves and soon. i just didn't want to do it right now in the holiday time of year which stresses me highly each year. but, my husband needs to see some action...phooey. it is not so much me the adult who is so scared, its from an alt or alts inside and i just don't know how to comfort and reassure them that it will be ok. they come out when the stress gets high and that's just what must not happen. i do not feel so darned strong as you seem to think i am. grrr. thank you for telling me what you know i need to hear and not just tell me what you think i want to hear...sigh.
bb, i wish i could take your suggestion but my spouse will not accept anyone recommended by my T. he is adamantly against her and has accused her of making me worse not better. which is not so. my failures such as they are, are all my own making. his mind is closed to my T and to my dx of d.i.d. makes life more complicated and scary to me. thanks for all your support bb, it does help!!
thanks all of you for your support and strength you shared.
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