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Originally Posted by silver_moon
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I'm going through the same thing right now and can appreciate your pain.  All I can really say is that at some point your head will tell you "I need to move on, I need to realise that I can't be with her anymore" because if you don't you'll never be happy... you'll question yourself why all the time, you'll compare others to her, you'll torture yourself hunny.
So easy to write, but very hard to do... I know, I'm struggling too. I'm getting some great support here and I'd be a complete wreck without it... you are grieving hun, for a girlfriend and a best friend.
Please be good to yourself. Treat yourself, think of you. I wish I could take your pain away, but I can't. I can offer you the warmest of hugs though, a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear (or rather a reading eye  ).
Take care confused,
Molly |
i keep telling myself that all day i just havent been able to. i am questioning myself, comparing others and torturing myself so you hit that one right on the head. i tell myself im going to be ok over and over but i keep thinking about her,trying to figure out how things went wrong and how someone could go from being so in love with me and then just stop like a switch went off. so confusing. i know im thinking about it way too much i just dont know how to stop. this site and people like yourself are helping me though. thank you its nice to know im not alone. kirk