Hmm...partners asking each other to "perform" for them can be tricky....

I can understand what your bf is talking about...it's fun and a turn-on to feel wanted, to feel like someone is willing to "court" me and get me all fired up.

But that stuff would need to come from you...it's not fair for your bf to put you on the spot. It's OK if he says what he likes, but not OK to complain and try to push it on you.

If you feel like doing it as a "gift" to him sometimes, if you can enjoy playing that part sometimes, it could spice things up. Maybe you can compromise and each play the part the other wants from time to time.

But I don't think you should be made to do it if you hate it.