my T is 34 and i am 20. its important that my T is older than me right now because of my age, but i always wanted someone on the young side. she is the youngest one in her office and she has this soft child voice that when people call her house they ask if her parents are home, haha. I like that she is young because i feel i can still relate with her because she is in touch with where i am in life, because it wasn't too long ago that she was there herself. times havent changed much since she was my age so its easy for her to relate. i just feel closer with her. but i also had transference feelings towards an older woman (who is a T but not my T, but i know her personally) and she is in her 50s. i liked her because she was like a mother figure that i wished i had. for some reason i haven't gravitated towards men, which is weird because my dad was absent a lot during my life. My mom was there, but there is an emotional part missing that i never got that i tend to put on my T. so yea, thats my two cents, hehe.