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Originally Posted by tinyflyer02
Hi!
Well here's my situation. I really love my boyfriend, but he wants to have sex with me. I know he's getting frustrated with me because we get to almost doing it then I get real nervous. It seems to bother when he tries to do anything to me, but I don't mind doing anything for him. It really makes me feel bad and we fight about it. We've only been dating for 4 months, but it feels like we've known each other a long time. He thinks I'm not attracted to him, but I am. He's a really good guy, but he brings up that many girls do want him. Sometimes he brings up stuff he used to do with his ex.
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I'm going to stop you there, tiny. your boyfriend sounds like an a-hole. a really good guy does not bring up all the other girls that want him and what he used to do with other people. 4 months is not very long, especially at what i assume is your young age, especially if it's your first time.
it's not that you're screwed up or blocking out some bad experience. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. you don't want to do it, for whatever reason, and therefore you shouldn't.
someday you will want to, and you can do it then. next time he tells you about all those other girls, tell him to go find one.