Not a guy.....but my boyfriend from the past two years has seen me suffer through the same types of things. For the first year and 1/2, he was supportive and kind and loving, but then it all started annoying him. He got tired of doing for me and we broke up. We did get back together but now he insists on not talking about my issues and he is completely not there for me. When I get in a depressed state, he leaves and will stay gone for days at a time. It only makes it worse, but he doesn't seem to care. Not every guy will be like him, though, if he is a good guy, have faith in him and don't expect the worse. Life will be what it will be. I think in my own relationship, I pushed too hard....I was always questioning his love and he got tired of reassuring me. I feel to blame for the most part, but in the end, I am not happy because the relationship is not supportive. Remember to be thankful that he is there with you and don't push to hard. Don't ever make it sound like its his fault you feel the way you do.....try not to ask too many questions so he thinks you don't trust him......make sure he knows the problem is within yourself and that you need his help getting through it...someone to rely on....in time, if he remains a constant help, you will get over the fear.