Hi Troy...

An interesting question...

For me,,I have found that generally I sleep in the bed I made. There are acts of Nature for sure,,that fall within some form of the chaos theory,,but most times I get pretty much what I give...Of course this aspect of my life relates to my adulthood.

Then there is the matter of what people think of me. If I am "primarily" concerned with that then I become skewed for I am acting through my ego and not my "self". Pride is one of my more vicious enemies, it stalks me waiting to take hold of the slightest fear and catapult me into pretense where I begin to either makes myself more than or less than..depending on what my fear dictates...

For me everyone matters,,but not necessarily their opinion of me...

BTW,,I think your pretty OK...

IMHO.

Lenny