Wow...big question injaga,,at least the first one....

Best I can do with that one is share my opinion...it is everywhere...I see the world of feelings in kind of a bipolar way...there is Love and there is Fear,,,with hundreds of adjectives to describe aspects of each...For me,,as an example,,anger is Fear and Forgiveness is Love...

Your second question is easier...at least for me...

Did a bee ever land on you?...Probably.

Did you ever catch one in mid air? Probably not.

The bee found you...you might have smelled nice...

But trying to catch a bee in flight with your bare hands is foolish and often comes with a price..

That's how I see finding your true Love..

Stay busy with living...it will land upon you...

IMHO.

Lenny