i'm rising up out of my "sick sofa" (as in sickbed) to volunteer to be a brainstormer for the move.....i can tell you from personal experience that when you're already hurting and you're feeling so down.....where you live has a lot to do with the "giveupitis". i have to move also! i'm at the end of my "bass thumping sportscars, drug deals one street over, pitbulldogs behind me and boom boxes from an apartment behind me". so, if sqrl will allow me to assist...let's get a move on! pat