myoasis, don't give up. I read in another thread that you are 19 and this is your second boyfriend. If your boyfriend is close in age to yourself, some of his bad traits may be immaturity. When I was your age, I had better luck going out with guys who were a bit older. They were more mature, more articulate, and seemed somehow deeper. They talked about more interesting things. I don't think guys as a rule find it funny to frustrate women, make women feel guilty and bad, and have no feelings. You are having a relationship right now that is teaching you what you do and don't want in future relationships. So even though it's painful, it's still valuable and will help you in the future. Maybe one thing to learn is to find friendship and love with a guy first, and then move on to sex.