I agree with all who offered you their support ktbug...

Please know that you do not need to carry shame for what has happened to you.

Don't let that event shroud you from any happiness...

Your building a secret...and from one you Love...If he Loves you and he probably does...he will be touched by you Trust in him..

I would tell him...its a risk,,but one well worth taking..

With Care,

Lenny