I am not trying to cause you to panic, I experienced the same from my husband, most of the pregnancy he was stand-offish, and when we had the baby, his usual self returned for all of a month, off &on. And this new stand-offish self returned. I checked the phone, and he was talking to women, I called one woman and she said that he told her he was getting a divorce. Our son is 3 months old. I checked text messages and he had 2 text from a girl. And now I don't know what to do, I love him, and yet even though he tells me that these women are lying or some other story, in my heart, I know that there is some truth to it, I thought there was another, checked the phone for about 1 month preiodically, and discoverd 3 of them. Give a shout for advice, anyhone, on " WHEN IS IT OVER ? "