The hardest part right now is that we are 1300 miles away. I don't know if I'd be more comfortable telling him on the phone or in person. The other thing is that it will be the first time I have ever told anyone, saying it aloud. Not that you all aren't great and supportive, there's just something different saying it. I really feel that I should tell my bf, but there's just something holding me back. Thanks theama! It sounds like you went through the same things I am going though and I am glad that I'm not the only one!!