Hi, I didn't want to jump in on Sunrise's thread, and I guess I know that the answer to this question is "no" but, am I the only one whose "soon to be ex" is not at all interested in cooperation and working out any arrangements or agreements? The divorce is because he decided he wasn't cut out for marriage, so he began an ongoing and unending string of multiple relationships with women on and offline for years until I found out. Then he pretended he wanted to work things out with me, all the while still meeting new people and still lying to me and our son. When I finally shook myself out of the denial phase and realized it was not going to change and I needed to get out, I filed for divorce. Now he's just ignoring that I've taken any action - other than using it to get sympathy with his new "women." He won't even sign the papers to get the process started. How can I have any hope that he'll come to agreements about anything? Have others had this type of difficult divorce? At this point neither of us want to be married to one another anymore. So why add insult to injury and make things harder, instead of just let the process happen and get it over with??