I'v had this girlfriend for three months now. I know it's soon but I love her very much. But I don't know if she still loves me. She is extremely depressed and won't talk to me or her friends. Before she stopped talking she told me it happens to her a couple of times per year. She said she had therapy for years and took prozak to control it. But she is off it. Less than a year ago she got out of a bad relationship of three years. Her friend told me before they broke up she was depressed like this and wouln'd talk to him. Eventually she came out of it. And soon later he did something stupid and she ended it. Then she was depressed for another couple months. Then she started dating. Probably too soon. I met her 8 months later. We are the perfect couple. She is the first girl I have ever loved. Things went great for 2 months. I bought her a diamond bracelet and many other things. I was always great to her. The only problem we had was the distance. We live an hour apart. We had some arguments about seeing eachother. So I decided to make it work, I would move to a mid way point between us and she could move in. She loved the idea. She came over the next night with pictures of apartments. She was in a great mood. But later on that night her mood changed. She didn't want me touching her or sitting next to her. From that night on things got worse and worse. That was 3 weeks ago. I haven't seen her since. As the days wore on her mood got worse. We continued talking normally but she was always in a bad mood. She was really stressed out about work and her car. And her work schedule kept us from seeing eachother. The day before easter she called and said she couln'd come over due to work. I admit I was angry. She invited me to easter dinner with her family but I couln'd attend. On monday she didn't come over. On tuesday she couln'd. So I offered to pick her up. But she refused. By this time I was very depressed and angry. I hadn't seen her in 2 weeks and every time I talked to her she was mean to me. She said it was the depression but I didn't understand. I thought she didn't love me anymore. Also on easter night she called at 11:30 crying saying she was sorry she was always mean to me. I tried to calm her down but couln'd. So tuesday night like an idoit I freaked out on her on the phone. I felt like she didn't love me. I asked her if she wanted to break up and she said no. The next day she wouln'd talk to me. On thursday she said we needed to take a break. But we would still talk and see eachother until she got better. Then things would go back to what they were. By this time I was extremely depressed. I still can't eat or sleep or work. And I started having bad anxiety. On friday she didn't call me. But we talked at 2 in the morning when she got out. I told her what I had done wrong and how I didn't realize what she was going through. But now I did. On saturday we talked a couple of times and it was good. I bought her a gift certificate, but she got mad at me for it. On sunday she slept all day and wouln'd answer the phone. My anxiety got bad that night until I talked to her. The next day the anxiety returned and I was freaking out all day. I left her 3 messages begging her to call me. When she called me I told her I had made a doctors appointment and I asked her to call me a few times a day so I would be okay. She agreed. I talked to her that night. I talked to her the next morning for a minute and she agreed to call me later. She never did. The next morning I called her and left a message saying I couln'd help her, but I knew she loved me and I loved her and I would give her space to deal with her depression. I told her I would call her once a day to say hi and if she didn't want to talk that was fine. Todays the fourth day we haven't talked. I called and left her nice messages every day except yesterday I didn't call. I talked to her best friend a couple of days ago and my girlfriend won't talk to her either. The last time they talked a week ago she said we split up. And when asked about why she didn't know, but said we agreed to be friends. But this never happened. I am extremely depressed and I hope someone can give me some insight. Please help. Thanks.