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Nov 25, 2008, 10:30 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: east of the sun, west of the moon
Posts: 2,259
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dear kendyll,
they say, "hurt people, hurt people". like all truisms it has some accuracy. but knowing the truth of this doesn't take any of the pain, anger, fear and distress away.
you do not deserve to be treated this way. you are trying to get healthy and deal with your own stuff and unfortunately living with someone as broken up as jon....well, it just makes it harder.
things you've written lately showed this was building up to something. it is possible to love someone dearly but not be able to take the c*** they shovel out indefinitely. it is correct to take care of yourself. remember, holiday season is stressful for everyone and more so for the broken folks. keep taking care of yourself because YOU are ALL you have!
hugs, leslie and pixies
ps, things are not great where i am either. so i guess we need to just do one day or one hour at a time.  kendyll
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