Heidu is right. This is not a time to make decisions.

There is probably going to be a lot more to the story.

Give yourself a chance to let the dust settle. The path may become clear with time.

I am going to have to stay away from commenting further. Your story is much too close to one that affected a couple I work with. I am very prejudiced and cannot be a fair commentator.

Wherever you go, there you are