Hi Molly
First off : your never alone there is always someone that will care.
It seems that we travel in the same circles re: pain and depression the later which can bring the soul more pain then actual physical pain although it doesn't seem that way sometimes.
There are a few tricks around to help with the physical side of pain of which training yourself to get past the threshold that you think you can take and moving past it bit by bit.( mind you I cant talk) At the moment ,or at least the last few days I have been loosing the fight of the pain war and the my body seems intent to fight itself into a bundle of sorts.

second: I have to telling myself this never give up
third : Its ok to rant and rave sometimes.
fourth: good people seem to be the ones to suffer lifes trials which makes us better people
fifth : everyone has heaps of love to go around with heaps to spare : so I spare you { heaps }

may we know a pain free day one day