just wanted to let you guys know ive been talking with mom over the past few months quite a bit and some new realizations were made on both sides.. her health was slipping pretty badly and i was concerned enough to involve another trusted family member... after we each had talks with mom she has made some choices that will greatly improve her health.. even if she is unable to follow through completely, it was a Godsend to hear that she wants to try...

thank you to everyone who's been supporting me through this and to all of PC for being here