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Old Nov 28, 2008, 02:23 AM
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Originally Posted by Doesitend? View Post
The counselor saw me in a state of despair and will not see us until hubby commits to working on the marriage rather than having his "turn".
yeah. i see where she's coming from but at the same time, you can't just wait for him to come around on this. he needs to have his eyes opened to the true nature of this situation, and from the sound of it he won't come to it on his own. i think it would be nice if you could ask the counselor to reconsider, or find another one.

but also i'm sorry you're in this bad situation and that you feel so let down.
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