I have issues with co-dependency. When my husband and i were thinking of separating, I was a wreck!!!! He left. for a while. and i realized i could do this. I had to keep busy. consistently. the only way to get over a fear or problem is to face it head on. Nobody likes it. I surely didnt but it helped me realize i CAN live without him. I choose to be with him. But i CAN and WILL live without him if i need to. Look deep inside yourself. pull it out of you and try a day alone. Sometimes it can be a welcome thing.

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Take care,
Colleen