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Nov 29, 2008, 02:13 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2008
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I felt the same way! Whenever I'd see girls kissing or touching on TV I would get a bit excited. Breasts and legs would also totally turn me on too... not sure what to tell you but I'll share my experience at University with you. I think I was always somewhat attracted to woman and men in my teens. When I went to University I made friends with this really cute girl (Olivia) on my hall who was bisexual. At first it was friendship and I didnt know she liked girls. One night we got super drunk together and we made out. It felt really great but I was really intimidated to let my feelings out so I kind of avoided her for a while till she cornered me a week later. We talked about it and I confessed to her how I felt about woman and that I liked kissing her. So we decided to be friends and see what happened. We got really close over time and decided to date. I dated her for about two years and then we broke up and I met my ex-husband. I guess I just wanted to experiment and she made me feel safe and I liked her more then a friend. I really liked her but I wanted kids and a family and I also liked guys. I met a nice guy and ended up getting married then divorced. I say experiment and see how you feel. If your attracted to woman express your feeling and see where it takes you? I met a girl I really liked and we had many great times together. She was sweet, sensitive, and a great girl friend. I think you've got nothing to lose! Good Luck
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Originally Posted by Melpomene
I dunno where to start. it's not really a big issue for me - if something happens something happens with whoever.
Not that anything has happened, or probably ever will.
Anyway, I just want to clear things up, whether it's a big issue to me or not, I like to be as clear and honest with myself as possible.
I don't think I'm Homosexual or Bisexual, but breasts can turn me on. I think it's just because I imagine someone doing it to me, though for some reasom i sometimes imagine doing it to other girls. That is, playing with them. I don't really tend to watch this, but I see it sometimes flicking through TV channels and sometimes surfing the net, in pop-ups and links sayign they're something else. I like to think that when I see myself doing it to other girls it's because I want someone to do it to me - knowing how to get a girl going and doing it. I suppose it's because I want people to act how I want them to act. In real life, if a potential love interest doesnt act the way he does in my head he loses 'points'. (Not that I have a pointing score, but you know what I mean XD). So, I suppose I firgure that only I can really know what I want, and that might be where it stems from.
I can look at a woman and think: Wow, she's gorgeous! but that's in a totally none sexual way, and I find men less attractive. Then again, I haven't been attracted to anyone in so long,that might just be my depression and me looking at girls is because that's how /I/ want to look - whereas i don't want to look like a man.
But whenever I dream about sex it's with a man, and I've only ever been interested in dating men. I wanna fall in love with a great guy, get married when i've finished uni and when i get my career in line, then have kids at some point. I mostly don't fantasis about women, so I get confused when I sometimes have dreams about them. I try and reason it out, but I'm still a little confused XD.
Any comments?
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