sorry about your mom....it hurts if you get the strength to tell someone how you feel and they still won't admit they might be a reason you're hurting.
my daughter is always right..makes no difference what she's said or what i did. when i babysit for her, she's been getting angry because i haven't straightened her house and done her dishes...i can't do both. Stella is a year old and walking and i play with her and watch her...i don't like to be up later than 9 on the nights before i work the next day. i have to get up at 4:45 a.m. so lately she's been late from class and that puts me to bed much later than i'd like. we had a huge blowup over that and i haven't spoken to her since Wednesday p.m. i'm planning on a move soon and although i'll really miss Stella, it will be a huge relief to not having her expecting me to be at her beck and call....thanks, thanks, thanks. pat