I have been getting myself educated. The reason why I'm here is to get opinions from people who have dealt with these situations. As for myself, I have never had true depression or other problems like that. But I do have a problem with grieving. The last two weeks have felt like we broke up. But I am slowly becoming accustomed to the situation. And I don't call her constantly. I call once or twice a day and leave encouraging messages and tell her how much I love her. I need to know how long this could last. And if I'm only causing her more greif by calling. Or if it helps knowing I'm there for her. She told me we needed to take a break for her to get better. But we would still talk. But she also told her friend we split up and would remain friends around the same time. Could this be her way of dumping me? But I did nothing wrong to cause it. I just wish she could clarify for me what's going on.