((((((((((((((((((((( monty ))))))))))))))))))))))))) can tell you what to do, but can tell you what i'd do having just had contact with my biological father.

you're just coming out of a very difficult time right now, so your vulnerability may be high. also, i wouldn't call him. if he wants to call you then you can always decided whether or not to answer the phone, given "the place" you're in when and if he calls.

gl on this hon,

kd