be very careful how you tell your brother. this information will HURT him even though you mean well. you may end up hurting this relationship even worse than it already is if you don't do what is best for him. since you guys are not close it really would be best if someone he trusts fully were to break this news to him. betrayal is a very sharp knife in the back. be careful that you are not the one who pushes it in.
you will want a good relationship with your brother one day and if you are not careful you can damage it for a lifetime.
i hope this works out well. one of my brothers disappeared many years ago and the other destroyed his life and died of alcohol-related causes at age 50. i miss them.
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